I read what she had to say and said to myself," Usually what we have to say is said to make some point.
Often the point we learn is this: "Bring me a mustard seed from the village of the sane." Of course, the Buddha ends up sans mustard seed. But that is the point to of the story.
Julia writes, "I know it's "all part of growing up" and it's pretty cool to be able to actually notice my brain changing and expanding and getting to those higher levels that I didn't even know existed a year or two ago, but I've been beginning to feel like a lot of who I am, inside, when you dissect every little tiny piece of my mind apart, is crazy."
I'm paraphrasing Rodney Dangerfield here: "The only sane people are the ones you don't know."
She's lucky to learn early that we all have that devilkin internal dialogue going on, non-stop.
If it were only as easy as naming those devilkins, like the seven sins. On one level it's greed. On another it's lust. On another its lust, pride and so on.
Julia--it's all of those things and more. We have our angels too. Our Swamis. Our guides.
Pride, by the way, is a cross-dresser, the proverbial baby in the bath water.
She goes on to say, ". I'm sorry if anything I say doesn't make any sense. I'm never good with saying what I mean in words when it comes to any sort of stuff beyond the surface, if that even makes any sense. "
It makes complete sense. What you have to say can only be suggested with words and most of us are hard of hearing. That is to say, those devilkin voices drown out most of what people are trying to say.
"I know I'll probably regret it tomorrow, but in June or July 2003 I started taking bass lessons with Sandy, a 50-some odd guy who works for my piano teacher. My piano teacher is the Music Director at this" creative learning center" type place…all music teachers there are under him, and then Sandy left and the job was filled by Jai. . .Jai was one of those people that you meet and you know you'll never meet again in any other person, who is so vibrant and full of life and is just all-around, even in the simplest settings, an amazing person, though not everyone would see it that way. "
He has charisma. He is real and full of life and majesty; he is enchanting, enticing.
By the way, charisma is an anagram for several ways to express what you saw in him. He "is a charm". I "am his arch" A "chasm" of blithe "air.
"Come April 04 Jai and I actually established (something) nothing more than friends) and then I had a lesson with him on a Thursday, and the next Monday he never showed up . . . disappeared into thin air. Just like that, no goodbye and no warning, just poof. Well, in hindsight, one warning might've been that the last time I saw him, he told me not to worry about love at my age and not to trust men." To say the least, this upset me quite a bit. So now that I've actually STARTED somewhere, that triggered (and has been the backbone of) this mental and emotional "big bang. . . over the past almost-year, and I've just recently started to realize that something, or somethings, have escalated so much that I'm completely lost in some aspects, not in the growing-up sense, but in the sense that I don' 't even know, I mean I do know but I'm lost or I'm lost in something like what's who or who's what, in whatever part of my mind. It's all gone and I can't pinpoint anything because I don't even know if there is one point to pin."
You naturally write using a narrative stream of conscious, a choral of devilkin voices seven part harmony. When you use your words in this way, your entire story becomes the point. In telling a story which seems to make no sense, your point may just be that--nothing makes sense. Not for long anyway.
She goes on to say, "I've just recently started to realize that something has escalated so much that I'm completely lost in some aspects (not in the growing-up sense) but in the sense that when I actually try and think about where I'm lost or what I'm lost in or even what's who or who's what, in whatever part of my mind, it's all gone and I can't pinpoint anything because I don't even know if there is one point to pin."
There was. But now it's gone. In his twenties, Mick Jagger has a lot more to say than he did in his forties. As for love or beauty, or truth or the pearls we cast at swine, in the end "Our love is like our music. It's here and then it's gone. So take me to the airport and put me on the plane I've got no expectations to pas through here again."
She closes by saying, I'm really sorry if I've caught you off guard, or if I'm making no sense to you, or if I'm alarming you in any way, because I don't mean to. "
I say, "Don't be alarmed when I say, I hear your love." When Jagger says in the song "No Expectations", he addresses himself, his duality; he was at the height of his experimental androgynous phase. His loves songs were from him to him. When he says "you, he means I or me.
When he says your, he means mine.
He says, "You heart is like a diamond. You throw your pearls at swine and as I watch you leaving me, you pack my peace of mind
Julia writes, "I don't even know anymore. I feel fine most of the time, and then when I get by myself, I can just tell. I know it's not all "crazy"-type stuff, I mean the average person is pretty weird. "
In Repo man Harry Dean Stanton's delivers a line that should carved on his tombstone. Quickly we learn in the movie that the most normal people in this world of grunge, rock, and drugs are marginalized, and after Stanton's had a few beers he sees a group of preppies. He turns to Emilio Estevez, his protégé and says "Normal people. I hate them"
Later, one of the punk rockers self combusts and a by-stander quips: Just remember. “It happens sometimes. People just explode.”
I'm really sorry; I don't even know what I'm trying to say. I can feel it, but I can't say it, I know what it is, but I don't know how to put it into anything tangible. (Even though tangible isn't technically the right word.) (I think you mean complete crystallization of thought
"I'm really sorry if I've caught you off guard, or if I'm making nonsense to you, or if I'm alarming you in any way, because I don't mean to. It seemed like there was a definite purpose. . ."
There was and I got it.
I think DH Lawrence says on one hand what I want to say:
"Something else is necessary for polarization to be alleviated or discharged. You must be able to focus; that is that the left and right, the north and south, all the opposites within you must find a point - a place, a wall, a curtain in front of you, upon which you can focus this polarization. This place can be, by coincidence, you canvas...falling changes into suspension...the canvas is no longer being worked on. The canvas, or rather the place that coincides with the canvas, is working on you. You are being worked. If you fail to respond in this way, you cannot remain suspended; you fall. It is the suspension of individuality...."
If you weren't where you are or who you are, you could go to NCS and get a degree in education. Where you're going, you will find out that words are often the frames we put around our canvases in order to let people know that although you have more to say, for now, you needed to say something and have people stop to listen. Suspension of your will which has dominated your young nature is now the only way to heal your own separation from that once, forgotten and future will.
University will be the place where you can, by coincidence, find your canvas. Your canvas is no longer being worked on. The canvas, or rather the place that coincides with the canvas, will working on you. You are being worked my darling Julia. If you try to work it, you cannot remain there will fail. It is now your time to embrace your the suspension of conformity.
Even when you sometimes he feel the need to go home, stay where you are because you are getting back to the original garden.
You are not in a state of diffusion.